Upstate New York Wedding Venue

A private Upstate New York estate for fully planned wedding weekends.

Four days to gather, celebrate and actually experience it all, with full-service planning and creative direction built into the experience.

Your Immersive Wedding Retreat in Upstate New York

Life is too short to rush through the moments that matter most.

A private Upstate New York estate for fully planned four-day wedding weekends, giving you the time, space, and support to truly experience your celebration.

hydrangeas on a sunny day at The Maples Estate
Bride and groom post ceremony with smiles on their faces

“the best party of our lives”

— Alanna, The Maples Estate Bride

reception setup at The Maples Estate in upstate NY with cream drapery and wooden tables
couple walking through the meadow at The Maples Estate in upstate new york

No Banquet Halls. No Ballrooms. No Cookie Cutter Weddings.

“One of the things I've learned as a wedding planner is that people rarely remember the details. They remember how the weekend felt.”

That's why we create four-day wedding weekends in gorgeous Upstate New York where you have the time to gather, slow down, and simply be with the people you love. With your wedding planner included (that’s me, Katie) you’ll have all the support you need to immerse yourself in the weekend and truly experience your celebration.

We’re an intentionally unconventional private estate where creativity, comfort, connection and really good hospitality are at the heart of everything we do.

Included in your wedding weekend package:

✔ Four days of private estate access

✔ Full-service planning + creative direction

✔ Your entire weekend thoughtfully produced

✔ Three nights at the farmhouse for your inner circle

Named one of the best wedding venues in New York by Here Comes The Guide

Meet your wedding planner.

Hey, I’m Katie - founder of The Maples Estate, your full service wedding planner and creative director.

“The longer I do this, the more I'm convinced my work isn't really about weddings. It's about creating the conditions for people to live inside the moments that matter most.”

That's why I ask so many questions before we get planning.
How do you spend your weekends? What meals do you love to eat? Where do you travel? What feels like home? What traditions do you want to carry forward? Which ones are you ready to leave behind?

Those answers tell me far more than a Pinterest board of collected images ever could.

Together, we'll shape a wedding weekend that reflects who you are, not who you think you're supposed to be. One that's thoughtful, personal, relaxed, joyful, and unmistakably yours.

I'll carry the details, guide the planning process, and create enough structure that you're free to let go of it. So when your weekend arrives, you're not thinking about what's next, you're fully present with the people who matter most to you. Because that's what I believe weddings are really about. Not filling seats or following traditions. Not just creating a beautiful event.

Creating an experience that feels deeply human.

So, let your wildest dreams escape you, allow them to become your reality.

What our clients love about us

Katie is one of the most organized and thoughtful event managers I have ever worked with. Her focus is truly on making the couple’s day perfect and coordinating all of the vendors to make that happen!

- Michelle, Intuition Events

The Maples Estate was voted “Best Weekend Wedding Venue” and “Best Garden Wedding Venue” by Here Comes The Guide, Best of Zola 2026 and has been featured in publications including The Boston Globe, Daily Mail, Offbeat Wed, The Knot “How They Asked,” and Dancing with Her!

This is a wedding weekend, not simply a wedding day.

The Maples is for couples who want the time to be with their people, the freedom to do things differently, and an experienced team carrying the planning so they can actually live inside the moments.

The Signature Wedding Weekend | $53,000

Complete wedding investments typically begin around $100,000, with most couples investing $150,000–$200,000+ depending on guest count, design, food, entertainment and the experience they choose to create.

guests arriving at a wedding at The Maples Estate in upstate new york
bold and colorful red and pink floral bouquet held in front of a bride's face at her wedding venue in upstate new york

We host a select number of events each year so that you receive the care, creativity, and attention you deserve.

We work with couples who care deeply about how their wedding feels. People who value thoughtful design, incredible hospitality, meaningful time with their guests and the freedom to celebrate in a way that actually reflects who they are.